Attracting women is much easier than it seems, it’s all about knowing what women like and want from a man. Sure, women love a gorgeous body and face, but we also want someone who understands our needs. Men that aren’t traditionally attractive often make the mistake of assuming they have no shot with a beautiful woman, but attracting women is about more than looks. It’s about knowing women and understanding them.

If you truly want help attracting women, the first thing you should do is stop trying to attract women based on looks. This doesn’t mean that you can’t have a beautiful woman; it means that you’ll have an easier time attracting women you like if you look deeper than a nice pair of legs. You only want super attractive women, yet you’re surprised that they only want super hot (or rich) men?

Attracting women is all about being yourself, so look for women at your favorite hangouts. Attracting a woman in a bookstore is much easier than in a bar, and you’re likely to find a woman who’s looking for something beyond looks. Not that looks aren’t important, but attracting women with which you share common interests is more likely than because you both favor tequila shots.

You’ve heard this one millions of times; the best method of attracting women is confidence. Confidence in attracting women does not mean cocky or narcissistic, it means having faith in your ability to attract a woman that’s right for you. Only a confident fool thinks he can attract any woman he desires. Walk with your head held high, and use direct eye contact with every woman you approach. It sounds simple, but being aware of your own attractiveness will help build your confidence, just know where the line is, and don’t go over it.

Once you have found a woman you are interested in approaching, don’t overwhelm her. Be confident and respectful of her and her friends. You will get much farther that way and look all that more attractive. Speak to her with genuine interest and give her the attention she deserves. Engage her in a light hearted discussion or show her you’re real inner self. Never pretend to be something you are not.

You need to be able to allow women to tell you what she needs or what’s from you. Watch for the clues to see if she is interested in you and act on those clues. If she is opening up and seemly interested in you, then develop that relationship. If she is looking away often and seemingly disinterested then, just thank her for her time and walk away.

Have you ever heard the saying “birds of a feather, flock together”? Well, this is also true when it comes to attracting women. If you’re on the prowl with a pack of men that closely resemble wolves hunting prey, then you’ll seem like that type of man to all the women in the room. You know that you aren’t anything like your friends, but impressions are everything and you’ve just given out the wrong one. If you really are interested in attracting women, your best bet is solo or with one reliable wingman!